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My Gifts: A Confession

In our home, we’re in the middle of a very draining, painful season on the special needs parenting journey. This season, I’m told, will come to an end. When the end will come is unpredictable. What is predictable is that, though this difficult season will lead to a less difficult season, the cycle will only… Continue reading My Gifts: A Confession

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New Year’s Day: Like The Morning Fog

I used to look at New Year’s Day as a new beginning; a fresh start. Since becoming a special needs parent, the celebration of New Year’s means nothing to me. I know that sounds harsh but, before you call me a party pooper, hear me out… Parenting a child with special needs changes your perspective… Continue reading New Year’s Day: Like The Morning Fog

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The Weight Of Motherhood: What I Know

Today, I felt as though I was suffocating under the weight of motherhood. Being a mother to special needs children carries with it an even greater sense of heaviness at times. To even say something like that makes me feel terrible. After all, I love my children with a deep, fierce, whole-heart kind of love…but… Continue reading The Weight Of Motherhood: What I Know

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“What are you thinking, God?!”

Yesterday, I sat in another doctor’s office…another one of my children, another painful diagnosis. I felt the doubt creep in. Aching for my child, my heart whispered, “What are you thinking, God?!” My mama instincts longed to fix things for my girl. I’m sick and tired of watching my children suffer. Then, a wise friend… Continue reading “What are you thinking, God?!”

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Surrender In The Storm

In the midst of my hardest and most painful parenting moments, I always felt that I HAD to keep going. That I had no choice but to push through. That’s what I’d always been told, anyway. Yet, I’m learning that, when parenting brings you to your knees, stay there! DON’T get up. At least not right… Continue reading Surrender In The Storm

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Deeper Joy: When The Holidays Hurt

I’ve spent the last several weeks trying to think of something to write as we approached Thanksgiving. I have a lot to be thankful for. We all do. Yet, the holiday itself is typically the time when I’m feeling the least thankful. The holidays for me, like many others, hurt. No matter how hard I try to… Continue reading Deeper Joy: When The Holidays Hurt

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Burned-Out: The Dark Side Of Parenting A Child With Autism

Today left me broken. I’m still trying to pick up the pieces. She was having such a good day. This morning, she ate breakfast at the table with her sisters. (She rarely ever sits still that long.) She did her homeschool work alongside her siblings as if it were just like any other day. (She always… Continue reading Burned-Out: The Dark Side Of Parenting A Child With Autism

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The DIY Mom

I am a recovering “Do-It-Yourself Mom”. Not to be confused with the “Crafty-Made-From-Scratch-Hand-Sewn-Pinterest-Inspired Mom”. I’m talking about the kind of mom who has a To Do list several miles long but never asks for help. The kind of mom who runs around like a crazy person from sunup to sundown working her butt off, but never… Continue reading The DIY Mom

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It Starts With Us

When she was younger, you thought it was cute. The way she jumped up and down excitedly and repeated everything I said. Her big green eyes and sweet, round angel face were the first things you’d notice when she entered the room. Her meltdowns were, in your mind, toddler tantrums and you gave me that… Continue reading It Starts With Us

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To My Son, Before They Label You

My Son, The doctors tell me that you have Autism. That, though you’re not quite old enough for them to make an “official diagnosis”, all of the signs are there. Soon, the world will label you. Many will see you through the lens of disability. Life will change. Before it does, I wanted to write to you. To tell… Continue reading To My Son, Before They Label You